| Undocumented Families Speak Out
By Joan Bolger
AN innovative new campaign to publicize the plight of the estimated 50,000
undocumented Irish in the U.S. has been gathering pace in Ireland.
“Irish Voices,” founded by Tom Reddy, a public relations manager
who offered services for free to the Irish Lobby for Immigration Reform,
calls on the families of the undocumented to voice their concerns in writing.
Reddy founded the group this summer, he says, after it became evident
that putting a human face to the problem of illegal immigration was both
difficult and yet necessary.
“People relate to people, not figures. Statistics are difficult
to engage with, but if we can get people to express things in human terms,
we have a better chance,” he explained to the Irish Voice from Dublin
last week.
Reddy’s next step was to approach Ireland’s national media,
where he says he received huge support. Also key, was a commitment by
bishops around Ireland to carry a note in their parish newsletters.
“I suppose it was a novel request and I got lucky. Everybody responded
very generously,” he said.
Almost immediately, letters started arriving in their dozens from the
families of the undocumented back in Ireland. “There is a terrible
human distress story at the heart of these letters, a story of unnecessary
misery, of heartache and in some cases bereavement,” said Reddy.
“It is very sad, and not just for those marooned in the U.S. but
for the families here in Ireland, who, in a lot of cases are too old to
travel,” he said. “Some of them have had their American wake.
They talk about how the child is gone and how they have no chance of ever
seeing them.”
Reddy says that he thinks that if members of Congress see the letters
or meet the families, getting a comprehensive bill on immigration should
be a done deal. He insists that if the legislators aren’t made to
listen, then they cannot engage.
“This is a question of quality over quantity. Every one story is
replicable around the country. I don’t think throwing hundreds of
thousands of letters at politicians is going to be effective necessarily,”
Reddy says.
“The handwritten letters in which you can almost see the tears on
the page are the ones that will stand out. Any one of those letters is
worth a million others.”
The letters present a collective narrative that bears witness to the torment
of their authors. Inherent is a recurring plea for a chance to be reunited
with their relatives, and for the right of sons, daughters, brothers and
sisters to travel home without fear of retribution.
Reddy maintains that there are thousands more who would have contacted
him were it not for the fact that they are afraid of indicting their relatives
in the U.S.
“I got dozens of calls from families saying that they’d love
to talk but they are afraid,” he said, and admits that he acknowledges
those concerns but that all letters are cited anonymously.
One letter goes as follows:
“My daughter has been in the USA for the past two years. She has
a baby that is three months old. She has been unable to come home since
she left. Her boyfriend who is also Irish has been in the USA for three
years now. She has already missed her brother’s wedding and her
niece’s birth.
“I have been able to go to see her but the rest of the family have
not. My only wish is that they could travel home for Christmas.”
Another: “Dear Tom, Thank you for this opportunity to voice our
concerns regarding our undocumented family member. It is a huge concern
to us that this immigration bill is proving extremely difficult to be
agreed on by all concerned.
“It is heartbreaking as a family to say an airport goodbye and look
at an empty chair on Christmas day. A daily fact for them is a family
member becoming ill or dying. We acknowledge the fact they overstayed
their visa. Ours stayed during a holiday visit to take care of a legal
resident sibling who was experiencing heartbreaking family illness. Our
dearest wish now is for a bill to be passed to enable them to regularize
their status, get on with their life and the freedom to come back to Ireland
to see their family.
“Our letter is anonymous because as you say there is genuine fear
among families that their undocumented will be identified.”
Another parent wrote of her skilled son working as an undocumented resident.
“My son is one of the many undocumented Irish in the USA. He is
an engineer by profession but unfortunately because of his status he is
unable to follow his profession. However he has acquired a new skill and
now works as a carpenter with an American citizen as his partner.
“He pays his taxes and is law abiding in every other way. He has
missed three family weddings, the birth of eight nieces and nephews, and
sadly he was not here during the illness of his beloved godparent.
“We try to get a member of the immediate family to visit him every
year to date. Unfortunately both my husband and I are getting on in years
and this will not be possible for much longer.
Another sibling wrote to Reddy about her brother who has created a life
in the U.S., but family life in Ireland has been abandoned as a result.
“My brother went to Boston about ten years ago and met a lovely
girl. He made sure to come back to Ireland once or twice a year. He was
a real homebird. He stopped coming home after September 11. He has his
life over there now but would dearly love to come home to visit.
“His daddy has turned 87 on his last birthday and is stone deaf.
Also Daddy has never been on a plane and wouldn’t be able to fly
to see him. Therefore there is no communication between him and daddy,
only through third party and letter. It breaks both their hearts.
“My mother is sick with worry should anything happen to Daddy or
even herself and they might not ever see him. We hope and pray that legislation
will let him get home in the near future.”
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